Each year, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Orange County and the Inland Empire honors extraordinary mentoring relationships through our Bigs & Littles of the Year award. This award celebrates matches that exemplify commitment, consistency, and the life-changing power of mentorship. These inspiring relationships highlight how mentoring not only helps youth achieve their biggest possible futures but also leaves a lasting impact on mentors.
Our finalists represent the very best of what mentorship can be when people show up for each other year after year. We are proud to recognize the following 10 matches whose stories remind us that when young people feel supported, their potential has no limits. And mark your calendar: the two winning matches will be revealed on January 29 during National Mentoring Month!
Courtney Burback & Randi
Randi didn’t need elaborate outings or big gestures, she just needed someone who stayed. Courtney built trust slowly through shared meals and her quiet presence, even when progress felt invisible. After months of patience, Randi found the courage to accept support, knowing Courtney wouldn’t rush or leave her behind. Now, even on hard days, Randi still chooses time with her Big because she knows she’ll feel lighter after. Their match reminds us that healing often happens one steady week at a time.
Howard Chen & Ethan
Howard met Ethan at a time when college felt like a hope, not a plan. Through STEM outings, life-skills lessons, and introductions to new career paths, Howard helped Ethan see himself as capable of more. Ethan tested out of his IEP, graduated with top grades, and earned a full-ride scholarship to Chapman University where he’s now thriving. Today, their adult relationship looks like family, with the two still meeting up for dinner frequently, with Ethan recently picking up the check for the first time to show Howard his gratitude for his years of support. It’s a reminder that belief paired with action can change a life’s trajectory.
Elsa Pena & Jasmine
Jasmine and Elsa have grown into true sisterhood, bonded through art, adventure, and shared grief. When Jasmine lost her father—and later, Elsa lost her husband—they chose to keep showing up for each other. Their outings became spaces for both laughter and mourning, proof that strength can be mutual and mentorship is a two-way street. With Elsa’s encouragement, Jasmine stayed engaged in school and committed to catching up academically. Together, they have turned loss into resilience.
Ian and Durrah Wagner & Emiliano
Emiliano calls his outings “adventures,” and with Ian and Durrah, every one is intentional. When his ADHD diagnosis made time feel overwhelming, they created a shared calendar so Emiliano always knew when his next adventure was coming. Through library visits, gratitude jars, and Broadway shows, they turned curiosity into confidence. Emiliano now balances school, soccer, and dance with pride—and calls his Bigs his best friends. Their match shows what’s possible when mentorship is creative and collaborative.
Jessica Lam & Yaitza
When Yaitza’s life felt unstable, Jessica became the constant. They study math together, celebrate academic wins, and show up for milestone moments like Yaitza’s quinceañera. Jessica helped turn Yaitza’s drive for school into leadership, from joining sports teams to winning an art contest focused on mental health. Inspired by her Big, Yaitza has even become a High School Big herself. She didn’t just receive mentorship, she learned how to give it. Their match reflects growth that comes full circle.
Colby Clark & Yerek
Colby expanded Yerek’s world one outing at a time from night markets to mini golf to college conversations. When Yerek’s 15th birthday plans fell through, Colby stepped in and made a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Universal Studios happen. That day wasn’t just fun—it showed Yerek he mattered. Now, Yerek speaks confidently about his future and dreams of studying clothing design. Their relationship proves that being seen can change how a young person dreams.
Laura Whitcher & Yahaira
Laura met Yahaira right where her ambition lived, like car rides spent filling out job applications and conversations about what comes next. She treated Yahaira’s goals as urgent and real, long before graduation was in sight. With Laura’s encouragement, Yahaira found her voice, applied for leadership opportunities, and even sang the National Anthem at Angels Stadium! Today, she’s a confident senior preparing for life beyond high school, and she was recently selected as one of our next Voices of Potential. Their match shows what happens when a young person’s dreams are taken seriously.
Ethan Waterson & Marcos
Ethan showed up through graduate school, new parenthood, and family moves—never missing a beat for Marcos. He helped Marcos turn missed assignments into A’s and B’s, setbacks into new sports, and uncertainty into direction. When baseball didn’t work out, Marcos kept his head up high and tried out for wrestling instead (and made the team!) Ethan was there cheering him on through each up and down. Over time, their match blended families and milestones, becoming a lifelong friendship.
Thalia Pizano & Anabelle
When Anabelle joined our program, she wanted what her brother had—a Big who showed up. Thalia did, every two weeks without fail, helping Anabelle learn boundaries, confidence, and what healthy friendship looks like. A full-circle moment came when Thalia introduced Anabelle to her own former Big, showing her that mentorship can last a lifetime. Over four years, their outings grew alongside Anabelle, from Chuck E. Cheese to community volunteering. Thalia’s consistency helped Anabelle grow into a more grounded, self-aware young person.
JP Li & Brendan
When Brendan faced a mental health crisis one week into being matched JP, his Big chose not to walk away. He offered Brendan something rare: normalcy, patience, and the promise, “I’m not going anywhere.” Through simple outings and zero pressure, JP became a steady adult presence during Brendan’s hardest season. Brendan now shows up, tries again, and trusts that this relationship will last. Their match shows how consistency can create safety where it once didn’t exist.
Every year, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Orange County recognizes two outstanding matches that illustrate how the mentoring relationship helps youth achieve their biggest possible futures and makes a long-lasting impact on the mentor. The 2024 Bigs and Littles of the Year finalists all have distinct, inspiring stories that illustrate Big Brothers Big Sisters’ mission.
The two winning matches will be announced on January 30 as part of National Mentoring Month.
Beth Fujishige and Jassmin | Matched since 2016
Big Sister Beth and Little Sister Jassmin have developed a strong bond over the past seven years. Although their connection was immediate, the journey to understanding each other was not without its challenges. Through consistent outings, patience, and dedication, they created a safe space to be their authentic selves and formed a profound appreciation for one another. Jassmin, initially a cautious and spirited 9-year-old, has transformed into a vibrant high school sophomore, passionately exploring the worlds of physics and psychology with aspirations for a college education.
Bophary Ngin & Areli | Matched since 2020
Areli and Bophary started their match virtually in 2020 and have since developed a really special friendship. When Areli faced a challenging event in her life, Bophary was part of her support system offering encouragement and positivity. Areli is in a much better place now, and she credits Bophary for making a positive impact in her life. Areli is now in her last year of high school, and she looks forward to graduating with grades she knows she can achieve.
Jennifer Arnoldt and Jazelle | Matched since 2018
In 2018, Jennifer encountered 10-year-old Jazelle, a girl with dreams but struggling with self-identity and confidence. Recognizing Jazelle’s need to connect with her diverse heritage, Jennifer supported her through cultural exploration, including a dream of getting braids for the first time. Despite financial challenges hindering Jazelle’s academic journey, Jennifer’s determination secured a laptop donation, allowing Jazelle to excel in an early college academy. Beyond academics, Jennifer instilled valuable life skills, from swimming to setting a table to self-defense classes. In looking back at their time together, Jennifer expresses immense pride in Jazelle’s growth and foresees a bright future ahead.
Joanne Kim & Princesa | Matched since 2021
When Princesa joined our program, her mother had hoped that it would boost her confidence and help her express herself better. Fortunately, Princesa found a kindred spirit in Joanne, who actively fostered her growth and helped her find opportunities to showcase her love for art. This Fall, with the help of BBBS staff, the match had the chance to lead a pumpkin decorating event. After months of preparation, Princesa confidently presented her work, leaving the audience engaged and laughing. Not only did she support others with their pumpkins, but she also showcased her artistic talents by handcrafting earrings. Thanks to Joanne’s consistent support, Princesa has found a safe and encouraging space to grow, and their mutual encouragement has strengthened their remarkable bond.
Suzy Bucierka & Natasha | Matched since 2020
In 2020, 13-year-old Tasha found a dedicated mentor in Suzy during the pandemic. Though their connection began virtually during the pandemic, their friendship is now full of impactful in-person outings. Suzy, whose husband served in the military, supported Tasha in navigating her aspirations for a military career. The pinnacle of their relationship was marked by Suzy standing alongside Tasha during her quince, a significant cultural milestone. Beyond mentoring, Suzy’s commitment extended to advocacy for the organization, contributing to holiday gift drives. As Tasha tackles her junior year, Suzy’s unwavering support ensures she continues to explore her potential and triumph over challenges, highlighting the enduring impact of mentorship and the profound bonds it forges.
Antonio Alvarado & Daniel | Matched since 2018
In the initial stages of their match, Little Brother Daniel remained reserved, but Tony, drawing on his own experiences, never wavered in his support. Empathizing with Daniel’s journey, Tony carefully observed Daniel’s unique qualities and preferences, crafting outings that were both enjoyable and enriching. Through this thoughtful approach, Daniel gradually opened up, revealing his true personality. This strengthened their bond and enabled Tony to provide effective mentorship throughout the last couple of years. As Daniel embarks on his final year of high school, the foundation of trust and connection in their relationship remains strong.
Chris Pyon & Angel | Matched since 2015
Over the span of eight years, Angel and Chris have been unwavering pillars of support for each other. When Angel encountered challenges and insecurities in school, Chris took proactive steps to ensure his comfort and provide support. Angel has a deep appreciation for the impactful lessons in kindness and self-acceptance that Chris has taught him. Chris continues to be a consistent presence in Angel’s life, commemorating milestones like graduation and maintaining regular monthly meetings as part of our Alumni Association.
Grant Chase & Connor | Matched since 2021
Connor’s mom got him involved with BBBS to have a positive male role model in his life. Connor expresses his emotions differently than others, which often makes communication with his peers difficult. Through his patience, care, and consistency, Grant was the first person to be able to truly connect with Connor on his level. More than a year into their match, Grant noticed that Connor was starting to smile for the first time and that they were having more meaningful conversations. Connor’s mom is grateful to see his development and grateful that Grant became the role model that Connor needed.
Luc Matthews & Isaac | Matched since 2021
Isaac’s mom enrolled him in the program with the hopes of finding him a consistent, positive male role model. His Big Brother Luc has risen to the occasion, bonding with Isaac over their mutual love of sports. Through frequent games of basketball, they work on self-discipline, resilience, and commitment. Through BBBS, Luc was able to secure a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for Isaac to attend a Lakers game with courtside seats. Today, Isaac plays basketball at the YMCA regularly and has shown increased self-discipline and resilience.
John Conant & Jayden | Matched since 2019
In 2019, 11-year-old Jayden’s life took a transformative turn when he met his Big Brother, John. John’s mentorship extends beyond the ordinary, imparting crucial life skills to Jayden, such as changing a tire and riding a bike. Recognizing the importance of presence and commitment, John consistently reached out to Jayden during the pandemic, emphasizing that he was there for him during a time of loneliness and isolation. Now a high school sophomore, Jayden is excelling with John’s active involvement in his personal and academic growth.
